People You Want to Hug

I surround myself only with the people I want to hug. Life is too short to spend it with toxic people. Whenever you do, bad things happen. Respect yourself and other people enough to say ‘no’. When you say ‘no’ to them, be sure to say ’yes’ to yourself. Through...

Whenever I Feel Lost

It’s ok, if you feel lost. Don’t worry. I feel lost everyday. Life is filled by unknown. That’s good. Otherwise, what’s the point? If you knew everything that ‘meant’ to happen, would you enjoy that? The ‘surprise effect’ is required. Surprise is neutral. It’s neither...

Don’t Watch The News

If you skip watching the news, you won’t miss anything important. People share news all the time. I neither watch news, nor I watch TV. I love freedom. Whenever I use internet, I choose what I want to see. I choose where and how I will spend my time. I choose freedom...

The Source of Happiness

You can choose to be happy at any moment. It’s that simple. It doesn’t matter what circumstances you are in. It doesn’t matter how much suffering you’re going through. It doesn’t matter how much ones and zeros you have in your bank account. People who chase happiness...

Holding each other’s hands

I thought attachments make me weak and vulnerable. I thought once I gave them up, I would free myself. I was wrong. I am weak without people I love. I am vulnerable without you.   I tried to leave, but there were no place to go. I tried not to look back, but part of...

Collect What Money Cannot Buy

The life worth living is the life of giving and sharing. Everything you have will take your energy. Be it people, things, emotions, whatever. Collect only what gives you more energy than it takes. The people and the things you love. The meaningful work. The once in a...

The Feeling You Cannot Fake

The feeling you cannot fake, that special feeling. Knowing you are the one, you are the one knowing why. You smile with every thought of what if… and knowing why, you still awake and cannot sleep in the middle of the night. The feeling is so deep. You never knew how...

Don’t Follow Titles

Your title gives you claim to the throne of our country, but men don’t follow titles, they follow courage. – Braveheart   From the moment we’ve been born, people put labels on us. As if labels dictate who we are. As if labels out-weight our dreams and...

Anger

Each time you get angry, you accept being poisoned. If you let someone make you angry, you let that person control you. If circumstances make you angry, it’s only because you let them. It’s easy to be angry. It’s easy to be mad. Negativity doesn’t take any effort....

On Being Alone

Being able to unplug from everything. Embracing the solitude. Being with yourself. And nature. And books. And music. Most of the time. No, I’m not a sociopath nor I’m mizontroph. I love being around people too. Balance is required. Being alone doesn’t mean you’re...